A False Dichotomy of a False Narrative
A False Dichotomy of a False Narrative: Submission
A False Dichotomy of a False Narrative
A False Dichotomy of a False Narrative: Submission
The dormant underlying false narrative and dichotomy surrounding submission has caused a great dived between the male and female genders. This has led to false pretenses and perspectives on men not submitting to their wives. The divisive nature of this very topic causes many trigger-points against hardened Egos that have not yet reached the point of death and destruction. Many men have not yet allotted time for deep self-reflection because they are too busy with other more unimportant things of their so called life. We’ll explore the societal, cultural, media, and religious aspects that have greatly influenced this False Dichotomy of a False Narrative.
submission: səb-mĭsh′ən
noun
The act or fact of submitting to the power of another.
The act of submitting something for consideration.
Something so submitted.
When anyone is in a relationship they commit the action of giving power of their hearts in love; Prior to that relationship was the consideration stage to where time of thought and emotion was given to the person seeking lvoe from another and vice-versa. What was that to which was submitted?
Your answer: LOVE & LOYALTY.
Two very powerful terms (words). Love requires many things; one of which is attraction and the other is a deep emotional connection. The other: Loyalty it requires not only a test but the action of solely loving one person in a monogamous relationship (choosing that because that form of relations is predominate). The two combined makes for a unbreakable bond unless, one commits another actionable verb of cheating. This is where LOYALTY comes back in to focus. Once that is ruined there’s not getting it back or even a reformative healing both mentally and emotionally.
That said; both Male and Female submit to each other equally. Yes, you heard that correctly, EQUAL SUBMISSION.
Where does all of this Male Ego of a false sense of what real masculinity comes from? Comes from the following;
Society, Culture Media, Education Religion, and the way in which one was brought up in as a child.
Society has taught us that a body part, hormones, and being born as one makes a man masculine. Sorry, but that is further from the truth than the lie that which has been taught. Media plays a big role in programming the mind to think a certain way (Mind Control). Even music included in with media. If you act a certain way (most of the time is just to act cool and hip for friends) then the media tells you that you are masculine. Education is so far removed from reality, they’ve even attempted to reconstruct reality itself in so many way. Religion; OH BOY! Hold on to yourselves.
Religion single-handily is the institution most responsible for the whole misconception of what is to be a masculine man. Most religious leaders (males) do not even know what real masculinity is because they’ve been programmed just like the rest of us. See? I told you to hang on. We’re just getting started. I let you catch your breath… Ready? Lets go.
In the construct of a family there are many things that take place where power sharing is a must because the woman cannot do everything by herself. With children it is totally impossible to complete even 2 let alone 3 or 4 task on a daily basis. So, the husband must step in from time to time; some daily to help and support.
Ooo! Help and support. Now there’s two words that tie into SUBMISSION.
When a person provides help and support they surrender themselves to submitting their love towards another to achieve certain goals and task. RUT-ROW! We’re about to spill the SPAGETTI-OS.
When the husband is ask (*cough — told) to do something by his wife, he submits to her and does what he’s told. (eyes popping out yet?) When a couple has children they must set the example for their children on how to relate and how to love and get along with another. Parents even submit to children in order to be that good example. (SUBMIT KEEPS COMING UP & DON’T KNOW WHY). The wife-woman makes plans for dinner because the husband doesn’t know how to cook. If the man wants to learn how to cook; he does what in order to learn? SUBMITS to his wife’s authority of expert knowledge on cooking. (WOO-WOO) because he’s ignorant in cooking. Even decorating the house (guys simply admit that you are dumb in this department, unless your are gay then you have that oh so sassy flare). The wife is the authority while the husband submits to her every command of where things go and what colors to paint the walls and ceiling with.
Shaking my head if you’re not getting the message yet.
NOW to the Church and those good church-going Christians that think they have it right. (Note: I am a Christian and don’t challenge me on that accord — I’ll debate anyone and savagely win while you slump your head in shame.)
Ever since the dawn of the church congregation women have always been the authoritative support to which all meetings and events were planned by. A man has to have a secretary, meal planner, decorative expert, day care for the babies and children, and teachers for the other children. Women have always been the solid bond that has kept many churches going and together. Without them men would utterly fail and all aspects.
Both at home and within the church women have been the backbone of all societies no matter what so called ‘man of God’ says. Most of them are even told by their wives what to d and what to wear and not eat. People like John MacArthur and many others, especially Bob Jones Cult University teach and preach tyrannical lordship over women. They never once preach against Male Ego and point the finger of sin against themselves.
Ego runs wild in religion period. (Note: I love and support those men that are called of God that are humble, not egotistical). They need an Ego Death after a long year of self-reflection.
What a relationship ought to be is one of LOVE FIRST, then loyalty, then sharing duties and responsibilities, not being a tyrant over the other.
This passage of scripture proves husbands are not to be tyrants.
Ephesians 5:22–33 KJV
22 Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.
23 For the husband is the head of the wife, even as Christ is the head of the church: and he is the saviour of the body. 24 Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in every thing. 25 Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it; 26 That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word, 27 That he might present it to himself a glorious church, not having spot, or wrinkle, or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish. 28 So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself. 29 For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church: 30 For we are members of his body, of his flesh, and of his bones. 31 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall be joined unto his wife, and they two shall be one flesh. 32 This is a great mystery: but I speak concerning Christ and the church. 33 Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband.
BEFORE I GO ANY FURTHER: A man must SUBMIT TO GOD and OBEY HIS LAWS AND COMMANDMENTS — Mistreatment of women is forbidden by God. Acting like a tyrant is forbidden by God. Acting like him will get you a ticket to a place you really don’t want to go to. ….Lets continue.
Where does it state verbatim SUBMISSION as to women to have anything dealing with being a man’s Slave? Many men in religion act like they are owners of women. Christianity, Islam, and others. Christianity and Islam are by far the worst of Male Ego in as much in Islam they brutally beat and even kill their own wives. In Christianity in uncheck households of certain radical sects they allow for the same brutal beating of women. They even allow for mental torture and rape of women. Like Islam, certain Christian sects forbid higher education of women and they force marry them into another family so they can be raped on a daily basis in order to have off-spring.
In the end it’s all about EGO; an EGO that must die. Men and Women must come together instead of separating themselves all because some EGOTISTICAL DIRTBAG runs his mouth. Remember and ABUSE is ABUSE and shall not be tolerated nor allow to be taught nor preached.
If you witness abuse of anyone say something for if you don’t someone might die or be seriously harm. Women and girls need to learn self defense and firearms safety and get proper legal instructions on how to use. NOTE: LEGAL in last statement.
I DO NOT CONDONE ANY VIOLENCE. I DO CONDONE SELF DEFENSE.
Thank you for your time in reading. I hope this edifies you.
Please tell me what you think. Leave a comment below.
As a complement to validation: Please read this article from a Pastor. Link below in Phot Caption.
This is one of the best, if not thee best, breakdown of the partnership Men & Women are to have. Fellowship with one another should carry the respect for one another that Almighty God designed Us for. We are Brothers & Sisters. Wives & Husband's. 'Family' to put it bluntly.
God Bless those who Rise when called by the spirit. The blessings to those around you are added to 10 fold.
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